Friday, April 17, 2009

An A Sea

Wednesday morning at about 7am our whole American group had to meet Banu for her to take us to sign something for our visas. Half-asleep and grumpy (at least I was) we took the bus and eventually found the building. All we had to do was sign something and give 2 passport photos, but we didn't have any so we had to get them, which would be an easy task seeing as there was a machine for it in the same building. Only problem was you needed to pay in change, which meant 8 francs in change for each of us which we definitely didn't have. So we all walked to the nearest McDonald's to get change, but that wasn't even open yet (it opens at 10 here) and then we tried the coop gas station, but she refused to exchange our bills for change--apparently that doesn't fly in Switzerland.

Plan B involved going back to Fribourg and getting the photos in the train station where they conveniently have machines for passport photos. Everyone took out as much change as they had and for those who needed to get more, they bought a piece of fruit or drink or something that cost less than 2 fr. Finally we got our photos in which you A) can't smile and B) have to have your eyes and chin at certain locations, it's very specific.

I got back to my room, had breakfast, then had my 3 classes in a row. I decided to leave half way through the church one at the end of the series so that I could have some time to run before catching my train. I ducked out (of course everyone noticed the American bouncing) and went on a short run along the river. I got back, packed, and rushed my ass off to catch the first train after 7 to Geneva.

Unfortunately I had looked at the arriving train schedule by mistake, so after rushing there, I ended up sitting next to the tracks for half an hour. I got to Geneva and took a bus and Rachel met me at the stop. I knew it was her approaching when I saw a tufts sweatshirt running towards me. We went back to the brothel and finished up some Mbudget fondue with Helaina and some of their friends. Then I almost went with Helaina to ladies night, but her friends bailed and we decided to go to sleep. Rachel and I caught up a bit and realized we will both be in Barcelona at the same time! Good stuff.

The next morning bright and early I got to eat their continental breakfast and then took a walk to the Geneve-Eaux-Vives train station in the middle of no where to catch my bus to Annecy, France. It was on the other side of the road from the station, so I couldn't find the bus for the longest time, but I finally did and it was luckily just in time. The bus driver responded to me in English, which I hate, so I continued to talk to him in French, eventually I broke down, someone's got to at some point.

It was my first time entering France by bus instead of on skis, which wasn't as cool, but it was so nice going to another country where I can speak the language. I walked around Annecy for awhile until Rebecca Graffy and Emma Hanson's train came in.










After a very exciting greeting, we followed Emma to our hotel. Since the two of them had booked it, they went in while I waited with my stuff in the parking lot, but came out after a few minutes saying that it was closed this morning due to a death. We decided to explore and get food with all our luggage, and got pain au chocolate to eat at the lake. Unfortunately it was overcast and foggy, so the beautiful alps in the background were hidden.

We then walked around Annecy to find wifi, so that we could check the weather and some other things. We found a Quick Burger and set up shop for a solid hour and a half. haha what a way to explore France. We then went to the tourist office to get ideas of what to do that didn't involve outdoor beauty, and got a map of a walking tour, directions to the bike rental shop (we hada planned to hike Emma's favorite hike near Talloire, but apparently it was too early in the season and it was closed because of snow and ice towards the top).

I think next we went back to the hotel, still closed, then back to the tourist office, now closed for lunch, then over to the bike shop all the way back past the train station, ALSO closed, fml. Then we compared our luck to the pile of dog droppings on the stairs to the bike shop. We then went back to the hotel one more time and luckily it was open. It was my first ever 1-star hotel!! It was painted purple and orange and there was one queen size bed for the three of us, perfect. We fiiiiinally got to leave our stuff in the room and actually explore Annecy.










We then took the walk marked Unknown Annecy--good choice Rebecca--and set off on our way. We diverged from the path and ended up walking up a hill away from the old city. We were stopped by an middle-aged man along the way who first asked us if we were looking for husbands and then where we were staying and for how long. It was time to get away. Only me and Emma know French though, so Rebecca didn't know to get creeped out until a few seconds later. At the top of the hill there was a church, we went inside and then outside and found a man to take our picture. He was a mountain man with hiking sticks, so we asked him where we should hike. He said there was a million paths on the mountain right behind us, and if you hiked this 5 hour path you could see all the alps and it was wonderful. There was plan b for the next day.










We walked around Annecy and went grocery shopping at a cute store where Rebecca pushed her limits with cheese and we bought wine based on the pretty decorations on the label. That evening we walked around to find a restaurant with local food that wasn't too expensive, and found this cute restaurant with a waiter that liked to make jokes in French to us. We all got these bowls that were filled with cream, and then variations of other foods depending on what we ordered--big swiss influence in Annecy, almost couldn't tell I was in another country. They both got tartiflette, which I would've gotten if i hadn't had excessive amounts of dairy in the past couple days and my body wasn't rebelling. Little did I know that in Annecy, beef lasagna is also in a bowl of creamy cheesy deliciousness... sorry lactose intolerant body (as usual).

That night we stayed in with our wine and watched Superbad on my laptop, very funny as usual. Then the 3 of us slept in the one bed, and I got a surprisingly good night's sleep. We got up the next morning pretty early to go for our hike. After brioche and jelly we headed out in our stand-out-in-europe exercise gear and headed to the mountain. We tried to memorize the trail map and headed out on the blue path that seemed to be the 5 hour one he was talking about. The sun was peaking through the clouds that day, luckily, and even though we didn't take the right path, there was a nice view of the French countryside. In the end our "hike in the alps" was actually a nice nature walk, mostly flat, and the "peak" where you could see everything was not very high and you couldn't really see. But it was nice to be out in nature and with my tufts ladies.










We hiked on a bunch of different paths all afternoon, and tried to soak up the sun when it peaked through the clouds. We ended up at the lake and walked back along the beach.












We then laid down in the park in the sun and enjoyed that until we had to go back to get my stuff together so I could catch my bus. On the way back we hit a grocery store and the cookie store that gave us free samples the day before, unfortunately no free samples this time. Then I went and got my bus and reversed the journey.

At Geneve-Eaux-Vives, I got really confused again and couldn't find the tram to the main train station. I ended up wasting a shit ton of time, but got there eventually and made it back to Fribourg that evening (Friday) in time for the fête de printemps chez marta et esther, as usual, but with a lot more people and food.

The party was a lot of fun, and the Americans actually came although they stuck together in the beginning. Mauricio got pretty sloppy and would only speak to us in Spanish, even though I can't speak it and the Spanish girls who can couldn't even understand him. Then he walked out the front door never to be seen again (until the next day). Allison and I were determined to go dancing at Irish, so we eventually convinced the hosts to convince the guests to leave and we all went over.










As usual on a Friday at Irish, there were very few people, but we owned the dance floor and it was a lot of fun. I am getting way better at dancing to techno and my European dance moves in general... I think, you'll all have to let me know when I'm back in the states if I look like a tool. We stayed until they closed, and some people went to Rock Cafe, but I finally had someone to walk home with (Allison) so we did just that.

The next day I had to get work done / am slowly going broke, so I didn't go with everyone to the hot baths, and I think I'll just save that for when my parents come anyway. It was warm finally and beautiful out, so I decided to go on a journey. I ran the paths I had run in the winter, but this time, without ice I was able to go on the steeper parts (which was exhausting), and I also got to run a lot farther. I ran through the forest all the way past Marly before turning around, and on the way back I reeeeeallly had to do number 2 mainly because of the past few days' excess of dairy products, and I didn't know where to do it because it was all residential and I wasn't about to ask some random swiss in their garden to use their bathroom, so when I was back in woods I hopped off the trail and did what I had to do. I didn't feel good about it, I actually felt really bad--decimating the swiss alps like that, and promise not to do it again, but I was a 45 minute run away from civilization and worse things definitely would have happened. Sorry, had to get that off my chest.

That night I went out with the Spanish girls to a concert of Old Skool Rap at vingtième. We were dancing and semi-enjoying it. I met someone named Yves who is from the ivory coast and is studying and playing soccer in Lausanne, his brother studies at Fribourg so he was at the concert. Long story short, since I am way behind in this blog, we met up again on Monday but he eerily sent me these love poems via text message after that so I was a little thrown off. He has also continued to text me or call me at least once daily up till the present (nearly a month later, yeah I'm real behind haha). Eesh, good thing he doesn't have facebook.

That Monday I had a bit of an embarrassing old lady injury. I always have to leave futsal early, clean off, and change in time for the class I have right after. Since you are all faithful readers of my life story, I will give you the true (and not abbreviated account). I was in the handicap bathroom changing and decided to wash my feet in the sink, which i sometimes do. One foot clean and wet, I placed it on the ground and put the other in the sink. The wet foot--obviously--slipped out from under me with my other foot still in the sink. I swung around and caught the sink with my hand just in time to prevent my head from smashing into the cement floor, thank god. Fortunately, I only ended up with severe and extensive bruising on my back and some blood. Because I've had so many first aid needs, I had some bandaids in my back pack and was on my way. The weirdest thing though was as I ran around to find ice before my class, not one of the cafeterias had any... how do they keep food cold and drinks refreshing? Who knows. I only know I was shaken up for the rest of the day.

I was feeling good enough later that day to go on a walk with Cinzia, one of my few actually Swiss friends. She is Swiss Italian, but also fluent in French. We took a nice, long loop around Fribourg and stopped at my favorite viewpoint. Good bonding time. Also, I clarified with her that "Je suis chaud" does not have the same connotation as it does in English (it does not mean I am hot in the lets open a window sense).

That week I had my witchcraft presentation in the class with the monk professor. I got it done, mostly by reading a script, but afterward the monk complemented me on my french abilities, maybe some improvement has occurred? Finally, after that presentation, my easter break began. I hung out in St. Justin (which is now--mostly--smoke free!) with some kids that night, it was good. Next day, I just relaxed all day and it was wonderful. I went to dinner with ACP/spanish/pinar and showed them the love poem text messages--they were enjoyed by all. Mauricio warned me that he is probably a serial killer and I should watch out. Then the sender arrived in Fribourg for our already planned and last date. Thanks to Mauricio, I was pretty nervous of being killed haha.

That Friday I packed and then took an afternoon bike trip in the early spring weather to Lake Murten which is about 45 mins away by bike. It was a beautiful ride and a really nice lake, but I realized once I got there that there is not much to do at a lake, alone, without anything with you to do. So I left pretty quick, and on the way home, I realized that to get from a lake to a mountain you have to go uphill... a lot.












I left that night for Lugano, which is where this post will end, and my spring break will begin!!


Observations, French but not Paris edition:

-Free wifi is the norm.

-There is a grey line between French Switzerland and the French alps regions.

-Lots of cheese and cream.

-They speak French too, so I can actually get around!

-The Annecy-ers are not that snobby, just wait till Observation, French Parisian edition

-They are more openly impressed with French speaking efforts than the Swiss.

-Much less purple clothing. Good call, France.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Madrid y beyond

Let's see if I can remember back to Madrid... it was already almost 3 weeks ago, sorry for falling so behind I've just been busyyyy. I remember leaving Thursday afternoon from Basel airport, so first I biked to the train station, then I took a train for 1.5 hours, a bus for .5 hours, a plane for 1.75 hours, and then a metro for 1.25 hours... you do the math, a lot of travel time alone and a lot of travel time to go such a short distance for such a short time. Anyway it was my first time flying out of switz and I got to stare at cute babies in the airport after having been given a free sample shot of chocolate mint baileys (still love legality) which was nice. Then I got a window seat on easyjet which is kinda like cattle herding style, but couldn't pee the whole trip because my lovely neighbors feel asleep immediately. Further, I was very glad I brought my water bottle because nothing is complementary! Not only do you have to pay for your drink, but a can of soda is like €2.50 or 3.50 i forget, which is like 3 or 4 bucks which is outrageous so I didn't buy any.

I got to the Madrid airport and after Susie's failure to find me in the terminal on her way out and my way in, I started my journey on the metro. Very interesting experience to try to navigate an unknown city when you don't speak or understand any of the language, except for maybe abrigo (jacket) and comida (dinner) which wouldn't help me get where I was trying to go. First thing I noticed on the subway was that everyone was making out, lotta PDA, definitely less reserved than the swiss. Eventually I found SOL and called Jon according to our plan , who's studying there for the year and he didn't answer. So then I was just finishing a solid 9 hours of travel, had all my bagage, it was night time, and I was still in a city where I don't understand shit.

I watched some street performers which was cool and there was a lot of activity on the streets for a Thursday night and waited for Jon's call. I called a few times more and never got one back, so I kind of just wandered through Madrid with my luggage as solicitors tried to get me to come into their bars in spanish. At least that's what I think they were doing.

Finally Jon called, apparently him and the rest of the team had been playing streetball or something and still were so with his phone kind of breaking down we eventually called each other enough times for him to give me his street address. Funny that I didn't have a map and couldn't ask anyone for directions, so I wandered this time with a destination and somehow, I eventually found it.

Brian Cahill lives with Jon so we hung out and he gave me a mini-tour of Madrid. It was definitely comforting to be with someone who could translate. We walked through this famous plaza whose name I forget and there was a comedian but I didn't get it and apparently it wasn't funny, so we went to get a kebab (kebabs are everywhere in europe!!) and Brian got his while this other guy got a huge order for his family and stayed on the phone making constant changes per his wife's direction or something.

The team finally got back to the apartment and they made/ate dinner, at this time it's almost 11 pm--the beginning of a trend of life on spanish time. Then we got ready and went out to Joy which is a club that Jon and Brian work at, and we got in for free because we were en la lista de jon zeta. It was cool to actually have to wait behind a rope with a bouncer that had an ear piece and suit on and to need valid id. We had to go on the early side, around 1 to get in, but never fear me and Graham held down the dance floor until it picked up. It was smokey like in Switzerland but the ceiling was higher so it was easier to handle. The music was good and we all danced. I met a girl named Elodie studying in Madrid, but who lives in Bern which is right next to Fribourg. We exchanged numbers maybe to meet up when she's home, and she said I danced like a Swiss person--I decided to take it as a complement.














Then a group of girls in minimal clothing came out and danced and none of the boys were looking at the girls they were dancing with any longer. It was kinda gross to watch the oggling, and the dancers weren't even very skilled at dancing. Apparently, if we had come back the next night, there would have been a girl just wearing tassles in a large glass cup... Before I knew it, it was almost 6 am and I was exhausted so headed back to Jons appartment where a bunch of guys were already asleep in the entrance way so I had to snag some blankets to make the floor more comfortable in the dark.

The next day after sleeping in, Graham and I decided to do the tourist thing in the 30C or 86F, sunshiney weather since we were the only two that hadn't seen the city yet.

































Loved feeling like summer and getting a sunburn, although neither of those lasted. Both of us had just finished a bunch of traveling and were super sick of taking pictures and being tourists. We still had fun though and explored and when we had some spanish woman take our picture she sang something about being in love, which was pretty funny.



















We took a break in a park with an egyptian tomb from Egypt and chilled and then headed back through the city. Took awhile but we got back eventually, and for some reason I had a ridiculous craving for a banana which I satisfied with a banana.














Then most of us went to el parco retiro or something like that to play some footie. We tried and failed and messed around. It was fun though and everyone from Madrid seemed to be in the park enjoying the weather.














We went back and made tapas for lunch or dinner which were very tastey and included, baguette/cheese/meat/apple/sweet melon/tomato/etc. We inhaled them and then had to head out for our game. We had scheduled a match against a Mexican team (in spain, I know right) under the lights on a turf field. Some of the boys got a little angsty before the game, but by the time the mexicans showed up to play on our very limited time slot it was fine. Three of Jon's friends joined us. The entire other team was male too, and I hadn't played outdoors in ages, so the first 15 minutes I was playing timid and making mistakes so they all wrote me off immediately. I got angry at myself and started playing fine, although it was too late for my impression with the other team. When I went out and came back in, 2 girls had come to watch and cheered as I went on.














The game ended with a tie 4-4 even though we should've won 5-4 because I got a goal that wasn't counted because only me and the goalie were close enough to see it went over the line before he got it and pushed it out, and in the heat of the moment I kicked it back in when it was still in his hands--not a good idea in soccer, and the play was turned against us. Oh well, still a very cool experience and basically the one hour I went all the way to spain for.

That night we took it easy, and around 1 am me and Danny and Ben and Greg and Jake went to a tapas bar for food and Sangria. I was expecting better sangria from spain but I just think they added the fruit last minute at this restaurant so who knows. We sat outside and these street vendors keep going in our faces to try to get us to buy stupid plastic things that light up. Then a bum came over and tried to sell us a packet of tissues. That same bum walked away and slipped and fell and started shouting. Interesting.














The next morning I got up and took a run to/around the retiro park. After I finished, I browsed the artists booths and found a necklace I liked then I layed down on the grass in the sun. I came back to the apartment to pack up and say goodbye and then headed back to the park to get that necklace. I was supposed to play another game of soccer that day, but due to a lack of communication and empty promises the game was scheduled at the same time as my flight, hence the run.

When I went back to get the necklace I tried to bargain, but the woman wasn't having it. I ended up paying the price she asked for, but it's really sweet and spanish and im really liking spanish style so I guess I need to pay the price. I went from there to the metro to the airport to the bus to the train to the bike back to fribourg. 18 hours of travel alone for less than 2 days in Madrid and only 1 soccer game, man i'm dedicated. Unfortunately, the memory of this otherwise good experience has been since tainted, which I am not going to go into detail about on the internet, but I will say that it sucks that some people will make several promises none of which they can keep to get you to do something, and then when you follow through, they turn it around against you and screw you over. Classy.

I don't remember what I did for the rest of the weekend in Fribourg or what I did on Monday, but I did go out for Crazy Monday and brought a swiss italian friend Fabio along with us which was a lot of fun. We stayed till the end, so I got like no sleep that night but set my alarm for 10 so I could see Mary and Allison's presentation in our 1015 class, which I realized when I woke up was not early enough to get showered and go, because I had to leave immediately after for my interview at Montreux.

Instead I slept for another hour and then got ready and set off for the mountainous lakey region of Montreux. Too bad it was cloudy and rainy! I got to the chateau of the Insitut Monte Rosa and it was dark inside and no one was at the reception, so I kind of stood around till a lady walked by. The kids are on vacation or something. So I let this lady choose the language of the interview and she chose French, which is fine, and I was surprisingly comfortable with an hour long interview in French.



















She told me they were already pretty set on english teachers for the summer (the job I was interviewing for), but would send me an email when they decided. The next morning around 10am I got the job. Sweet deal. That meant though I had to straighten out things in Boston and make a decision. The rain stopped after my interview, so I walked around the lake through the mountains and got hungry.



















I ended up at a Migros take away, and did my shopping there too since all Migros close at 7 and I hadn't had money to shop in 2 weeks. Then I carried a shit ton of groceries the 2 hour trip home.

On the train ride back, there was a Spanish woman with an adorable little girl who loved to smile at me. The mom had flag stickers with her and decided to do this to her child.














It was hilarious and even funnier when the girl would look in the window and see herself and start freaking out (every time). She couldn't even blink due to Switzerland!

The rest of the week was just relaxing, I was SO releaved not to be traveling again, so I got some work done that I had been putting off, stayed in my pajamas, and went out with my friends. I do recall however have some pretty strong negative feelings about my experience here. I felt like I had zero friends that I was actually close with and felt so incredibly lonely. Luckily come Saturday I started feeling a bit better.

Friday night I went with Dan, Mary, and Lauren to a Fribourg-Gottéron hockey game. To get there, we took a shortcut down a hill, across the railroad tracks, and over a fence. Lucky for us, when we were about to cross the tracks a train came so we had to crouch against the hill.














Gottéron is a really big deal in Fribourg, its the canton's semi-pro hockey team and like equivalent of D1. They had had an incredible season and this was the semi-finals against Davos and we were up 3-1 in the series. We didn't have tickets, but there is a heated tent with flat screen tvs and beer and sausage and massive amounts of cigarette smoke. It was like a hot boxed tent and there were a bunch of characters that were interesting to watch.














Davos got a goal early on and Gottéron never was able to put one away, it was scary being there towards the end, people were getting violent. Glad I went, but as it turns out Gottéron lost that game and continued to lose the whole series. Way to blow it in the end, guys.

Saturday night I went out with some kids from my floor, some of which are actually swiss! to a bar. Everyone got a beer, but I got wine. Anyway, when we were clicking glasses I made a big social taboo. I knew the rule about maintaining eye contact with the other person to maintain a good sex life, but I did not know about the rule against crossing over or under another pair. I attempted a cross and everybody freaked out, asking how I could not have learned this by now. I felt really bad about it, but they probably all forgot in a few minutes. I still feel bad, I'll never cross again! Then I headed over to Marta and Esters and it was really nice. There were just a few of us hanging out instead of the usual big erasmus party, so we all got to actually talk and that made me realize I have made at least a few good friends here.

On Sunday, me and my Swedish friend Eric Johnson decided to go to Abdelboden to ski. I think it might have been my last time of the season, since I have a pretty busy few months coming up. We took 3 trains and a bus and took the bus to the end as the driver told us to, which turned out to be a horrible decision. We couldn't find the base of the lift for about an hour as we walked around Abdelboden with all of our equipment, cuz for some reason they decided to not have signs around for it. Eventually we found the gondola to take us to Oey which was like 4 stops earlier on the bus, thanks bus driver.

It was big and the snow was great HOWEVER there was terrible fog and no visibility. It got worse throughout the day and there were times when we didn't know which direction was up and which direction was down.



















We made the best of it though, you just had to be prepared to hit anything. I had this weird revelation at one point when I was searching for the next trail marker, that what I was doing was a lot like what we do in life: only being able to see a little bit ahead while blindly following markers you assume are safe, and needing to react quickly to unforeseen obstacles. This is not a deep blog though, so that's about as far as I'll get into it. The time had finally sprung forward (weeks later than in the US) the night before so we were both exhausted by the end of the day and starving, so a big dinner at st-justin was required.

It was super painful getting up for class Monday, especially because it still felt like 6 am. I was pretty useless that day. On Tuesday I finally went to my art history class and turns out this one was in German so luckily I had my laptop and could work on my witchcraft presentation. The professor wasn't even there, I shouldn't have woken up. Then I stopped by the train station to buy last minute tickets to Annecy, France that week to meet up with Rebecca Graffy and Emma Hanson. I'll save that story for another post because my witchcraft presentation is tomorrow and I should probably be finishing that and not this. Guess my priorities are a bit off.

Observations Spain Edition:
-Everything is later, including meals, that way they can squeeze a forth one in.
-They definitely know how to party.
-I have no idea how the whole country isn't sleep deprived.
-People there think I'm Spainish.
-Futbol is taken very seriously.
-The scarf I bargained for in Italy is all over the place and much cheaper in Spain.
-Public displays of affection are everywhere!
-It's much cheaper to live there than in Switzerland.
-There are live statues on every corner.
-There was this one street performer playing recorder. I played that in music class in 4th grade, come on now.
-Lots of offers for prostitution.
-Everyone I met told me in English that I have to learn Spanish, and those were the only words they knew in English.
-Incredible weather!
-I wasn't there long enough to make any more observations.

Some Swiss ones:
-There are so many hoodrats everywhere, aka gangster kids, except there's no reason for it.
-I don't think I've seen any homeless people, where did they put them all?
-They use rulers in class to make graphs or underline things in their notes. Why!
-They nickle and dime you on everything (ex mcdonalds ketchup packets with your meal? that'll be 0.15 CHF each please)
-Don't cross glasses or lose eye contact when trying to do a cheers!!
-Absinthe was invented here. They even have absinthe chocolate, how swiss!
-I am starting to make friends with some!